Every time you point your ire at the folks calling out the jackass behavior of the jackass President, rather than at the jackass President himself, you incrementally normalize the behavior of the jackass President. You tell us to accept it because everyone knows he's going to do it, to paraphrase Tiki.
No. I don't accept it. It's asinine to say anything other than "let's count all the legally cast votes, by the rules set in place, making sure there's proper oversight and within the law." Tweeting out "Stop the count!" is beyond asinine and needs to be called out. The inciting of the sycophants is real and it is indeed dangerous. It erodes trust in our voting process and does not help to heal the scars - win or lose - that this administration has created.