Alex no, but Fergus yes. DL yes. Same thing. These are all fine towns. And all have proud football programs. There is literally nothing wrong with growing up in any of them.
I really don't understand why it is so hard for folks to not extrapolate my point beyond what I was actually saying. I was being very, very specific, and implied nothing beyond that specific point.
This was your original post:
"Hmmm ... this bit sounds off.
If that were a thing, I suspect
more folks would've done it.
That said, if you want to live in a small outstate town that is 96+% white, then by all means."
Just addressing this point specifically, people move to outstate Minnesota all the time for the purposes of raising their families in a community that they perceive is "better" for an array of reasons, one of which is a perception of "safety" which likely comes from the feeling of that everyone knows you, knows your kids, knows your life, etc. Some people perceive that as "safe" and some people may feel they cannot get that in the metro and thus look elsewhere.
To try to compare picking Alex itself as compared to the number of people living in the metro/Mpls/etc. to justify the n of 1 we're discussing doesn't really make any sense if you're trying to compare this phenomenon, especially when you yourself say they're all the "same thing" in terms of rural towns. Why you can't perceive that one family may feel that Alexandria (or any of these more rural towns you list) is safer is beyond me as many families make this choice every year.
For myself, I don't perceive the Twin Cities to be violent or frightening or any of the like and given that, I have and will stay here. My brother and sister, on the other hand, both chose to move back to rural MN/ND to raise their families there with both of them citing feeling their kids were safe there as part of their decision